So this next person just messaged me this one night and just saying after he saw my picture that he wanted a relationship with me. He also said that he knew that I was his type and that it would all work out...without even meeting me in person and just after some small talk. Would you believe that!!?!??? Being the naive person that I was, I kept talking to him and finally he kept messaging me so much to meet up that I did so before going to work on my graveyard shift at the hospital. We met up in front of a McDonalds (despite him insisting on meeting at his place and saying that he was not a creeper). After meeting him at McD's and walking around the block, I decided maybe he isn't a creeper and that we should chat at his place since there wasn't a place to have a nice chat. Well, we got to his place and ended up cuddling and fooling around for a little bit. That is when I realized that I wasn't interested anymore because somehow he smelled a little and he was just too old for me also. I think he said he was 33 years old. Then a bit later we chatted and he just kept messaging to meet up and being negative saying nobody liked him and that he was too ugly and etc. He finally blocked me then unblocked me and I was over it by then because we couldn't even be friends if he acted that way. I did meet up with him another time at his sisters place when she went on vacation but that just made me not really even want to see him because he wanted more than just friendship. This guy was just crazy over me and I don't think I could have handled it anymore....so we are not talking at all anymore. PS....I saw him and his cousin at CPK restaurant while eating out with my friends, and we were next door neighbors in the dining area....what are the coincidences of that hahah.
The reason by I called this person soccer boy is because of his obsession with soccer. He bets, plays, watches, and talks about soccer. I found that kind of hot at first, but not that I realize this persons life sorta revolves around soccer...it isn't haha. Anyways, he messaged me on Jack'd and was pretty persistent and crazy texting like the crazy lover...and that got me thinking fudge. But the naive me gave this person a try and after texting a bit he convinced me to meet up with him. I met him at a shopping complex. Before we met up I called my sister to tell her how crazy this meet up was because i am meeting another crazy person. His pictures looked okay, but I didn't really recall his picture anymore other than being good enough and not creeper looking to meet up with. I met him, and first thing I thought was...asian refugee because the way he dressed and we jay walked to In n Out to eat. He paid for in n out when we met and that was really nice of him. I don't like people paying for me because I have the mindset that that is taking advantage of them. We talked for a little then went back to his place and cuddled and fooled around. I think from that meeting I was a little interested in him and we continued talking and meeting up while giving each other gifts. I also helped get him when his truck broke down from work which was pretty fun. I think he is one of two people in my dating life that I have actually liked. However, I think I have sort of lost attraction towards him. I think it is his age, he is 33 years old and also because of his ambitions in life. He doesn't have goals in life and he is already 33 years old. Everything else about him is good. He loves to cook for me, pays for me (even though I feel bad so I try to pay when I can), and is a really loving person. As a result, I did tell him on multiple occasions that at this point in my life... I don't really want a relationship (which is true), and I do not want to lead him on. I also ask him what he wants out of what we are doing and he tells me...anything. So... I don't know what to do but I think I really like him as a friend, but I really don't feel like doing anything physical with him anymore. Also, whenever we talk he always wants to hang out and asks me constantly when do I finish work. I want my own time to plan out my life and also do my own things so it is kind of annoying when he asks that and when I say no he gets a bit mad. I know this probably means I do not like him, but I don't think it is a good idea to tell him I do not like him. I think telling him I don't want a relationship is much less hurtful. Currently things are going on but I think I rather just stay friends.